“Have it or eat it”

I keep talking to all of these girls with boyfriends and it seems like all of them are having the same issue. First of all these dudes suck. Second it’s obvious that they want to have something on the side. My problem is the lame ass excuses they give and that these girls take. One dude says he wants to make sure his baby momma don’t trip and not let him see his child. Bullshit…what legal precedent is that. “Your honor their client had a girlfriend in plain view of the plaintif…clearly reason to deny him visitation rights. ” I could respect if these dudes just “had” two women, but they’re lying to them and trying to stave them off. Now I know that I am a commitment oriented guy…at the moment. But for real when I didn’t want to be tied down I said so. These cats are trying to lie and fill gaps and that is going to blow up in their face. The thing I hate more is that these girls will try to explain why the dude really loves them and it’s the other girl that’s tripping. Then I give them the cake theory and they can’t hear it. He wanna have it and eat it! If he didn’t you wouldn’t be beefing about someone calling you trying to fight over his stupid ass. It’s one thing to get cheated on. It’s another to know that you are not the only one. It’s something totally different to think someone loves you and just can’t get a third person to leave them alone. That’s Crap. I can cut someone off in 10 seconds. Any possessions that need to be exchanged are a different matter. This clinging bullshit is some void as loser tactic and I’m not feeling it. For real alot of the blame has to go those ladies that are hanging on. I just can’t listen to it.