When you have the voice…
“One’s first step in wisdom is to question everything - and one’s last is to come to terms with everything.”
Georg Christoph Lichtenberg (1742 - 1799)
So something has come up and I need a hand. I’m considering doing something I have casually written off as something I would never do. The opportunity has come up for me to move somewhere. Oh, by the way, I left the hellhole that I called my home address this weekend…EXCELSIOR!!! Problem is I couldn’t find my own spot in time so I’m staying somewhere on a temp basis. Now I have an offer to move into someones home. The rent includes utilities and is cheaper than I have been planning for. This means I can get on the road again sooner…or in a bigger way. I can keep my direct TV, which would cost $150 to dump…God knows NFL sunday ticket is my savior. I won’t be far from all my family, my peoples and downtown. The person is real cool. Now here is the thing. It’s a female…one I’m not involved with or related to. Does that work? Is it beyond the realm of physics? Does it defy logic? Will the time and space continum rip and be torn asunder? Tell me what you guys think…I go to check the space out tonight.
I say go for it. And remember your new roomie is like your sister so she is off limits.
Comment by Miz JJ — March 6, 2007 @ 6:32 pm
If it is a female that you have no intentions of becoming romatically involved with, but have been intimate with in the past there will be trouble.
If it is a female that you have never been intimate with, but she has those warm gushy feelings for, there will be trouble.
If you and this woman are strictly platonic friends, you will not be able to entertain members of the opposite sex in her respectable home. Troublesome for You.
It sounds ideal because you would be relocating to a place not out of reach from friends/family/old haunts and all that is familiar. Ultimately you save money in the long run on rent, utilities and get to keep the sports channel.
But in the long run, you may lose out on privacy, personal space, and whatever type of friendship or bond you have forged with this woman.
Is it possible that she wants you closer for reasons that you may not have thought about?
You seem to think you need to step back and pause. To look at the bigger picture. Good.
Will this situation cause trouble for you after a few weeks. It looks as if you might think so.
Most men know more about women than they think, but tend to ignore gut feelings and instinct.
A situation that looks as if it could save you a few dollars may end up not being much of a bargain at all.
Especially if you now have to end up paying motel bills, going to a hook ups house ALLL the time (think kids, messy houses, and awkardly getting dressed and hurriedly making an exit while trying to look like you’re not) and also getting back seat booty in your car;).
But I do tend to expect the worse, and hope for what the fuck ever.
Comment by Prila29 — March 6, 2007 @ 7:08 pm
Is it possible that she wants you closer for reasons that you may not have thought about?
my question exactly
I mean if you don’t mind, hey.
Comment by GC — March 6, 2007 @ 7:23 pm
Is it possible that she wants you closer for reasons that you may not have thought about?
my question exactly
I mean if you don’t mind, hey.
Comment by GC — March 6, 2007 @ 7:24 pm
I think it’s a great idea! Save some cash, get your car and enjoy your friendship. All women aren’t predators.
Comment by jali — March 7, 2007 @ 1:58 pm
You’re too grown for this to be an issue. Save your money, stack your chips…and keep your DirectTV? Shit…sounds like a plan. Just like you don’t have to eat at every restaurant you pass in a day, there’s no law that says you have to fuck every female you live with that’s not blood kin. Gird up your loins, soldier. LOL
Comment by NinaMM — March 8, 2007 @ 2:43 am
Once she gets a full dosage of your man-sexy, it might already be too late!!!. Especially if you insist on wwearing the sunglasses in the crib….lol
Just do it, remember summer is round the corner and this might be the last official year for the ‘crew’ to hang ( we getting old…hehe). so stack. save. drive. be happy.
Comment by abRock — March 8, 2007 @ 6:02 pm